अपना क्या नुकसान है…

स्वभाव और व्यवहार का आपस में पुराना संबंध है। अगर हमारा स्वभाव अच्छा होगा तो व्यवहार भी अपने आप अच्छा होगा। स्वभाव को अच्छा रखने के लिए हमारी धनात्मक सोंच होना अव्यशयक है। धनात्मक सोंच रखने से इंसान अपनी जिंदगी में जो भी कार्य करता है उसे वे सफलता पूर्वक और बिल्कुल सही ढंग से पूर्ण कर पाता है। धनात्मक सोंच के कारण ही उसे पसंद करने वाले अधिक होते है। धनात्मक सोंच से वे हर बड़े से बड़े दुख को आसानी से हल कर सकता है। हम यह ज़्यादातर देखते हैं कि जो लोग धनात्मक सोंच रखते है वे सदैव सुखी रहते हैं।  उन पर भी मुसीबतें आती है परंतु वे उसे सोंच विचार करके दूर कर लेते है। फालतू में उसे अपने सर से बंधे नही रखते। 

अक्सर चिरचिरे लोगों को देखा जाता है कि वे ज्यादा सोंचते हैं। उस सोंच विचार से उन लोगों के मन मष्तिस्क में कई तरह के अच्छे बुरे विचार आते रहते है। ज्यादा सोंचने वाले व्यक्ति कुछ ही सफल  हो पाते है। चिरचिरे होने की वजह तो कई हो सकती परंतु मुख्य है विश्वास की कमी, किसी का साथ न होना और कोई काम का न होना लेकिन चिरचिरेपन को दूर करने के लिए स्वभाव वे व्यवहार मे परिवर्तन किया जा सकता है। 

स्वभाव दो शब्दों से मिल कर बना है “स्व” और “भाव”। “स्व” यानी स्वंय अर्थात हम और “भाव” का अर्थ है विचार। दोनों शब्द को मिलाने पर बनता है, हमारा विचार। और इसीलिए कहा भी जाता है कि “हमे अपने विचारों पर ध्यान देना चाहिए नही तो वे शब्द बन जाता है। अगर हमारे विचार गलत होंगे तो हम गलत शब्दों का प्रयोग करेंगे। हमारा स्वभाव हमारे वयवहार को इतना बदल देता है कि हमे पता भी नही लगता कि हम कब बुरे व चिरचिरे बन गए।” 

इसी प्रकार किसी व्यक्ति का स्वभाव उसे अच्छा इन्सान से बुरा  बना सकता है और बुरे इन्सान से अच्छा भी बना सकता है। व्यवहार का भी कुछ इसी प्रकार का सम्बंध है। इनदोनो में परिवर्तन करके हम अपना व्यक्तित्व बदल सकते है

बदनाम हो गया….

वक्त नहीं है, वक्त नहीं है,
ये कह कह कर वक्त बदनाम हो गया।
कहते हैं, वक्त से अच्छा कोई शिक्षक नहीं
और लोग कह रहे,
वक्त तूने मुझे बर्बाद कर दिया।
सच में इंसान ने किसी को नहीं छोड़ा,
अब वक्त भी है इनके निशाने पे,
ये वक्त भी बदनाम हो गया।
लाख किस्म की जीवन शैली,
सब के पास है उतना ही वक्त।
उतने ही वक्त में,
कोई कमाल है कर जाता।
तो कोई उसी पल को कोसते कोसते
बर्बाद है कर जाता।

– मनीषा कुमारी

Book review of “Trust”

Compiler – Deo prakash

Publisher – Humrooh publication house

Trust is an anthology which is based on trust of many co- authors. They all wrote there trust story, poems and incidents related to trust in that book.

You can find beginners and some very talented writers in this book. In some pages you are going to inspire with this book also.

Fact about investing

● Investing money is just like putting money into your bank account. In both places your money can decrease or increase. But investing and putting in bank have many difference between them.

● Both interest rate is different.

● Both uses is different.

● Growing money is similar but not every time. That time panic is not a solution because in future it can be increase.

● There is a profit margins better than any banks.

● Both uses are flexible means when ever you want to withdraw money you can withdraw it.

● Invest slowly not be greedy about investment because it have two qualities profit and loss. And investment is not make you millionaire or billionaire in one night. It will take time to grow your money.

● Investing is just like helping anyone for run there business. We know that from less money no company will grow but after investing we are a part of it and indirectly we helping it.

Book review of ‘Rework’

Author – Jason fried and Devid heinemeier Hansson

The book “Rework” is one of the business books. This book good for beginners who want know about basics of business. This book works on strategy of “you need less than you think.” It means What you really need to do is stop talking and start working.

Author of rework says 5 things for those who starting business first time.

● “If you’re going to do something, do something that matters.”

It means that if you want to do business or work which make a change in the world, then only you can do a meaning ful business. It means you are a part of something important.

● “Stop putting down your self”

Many people feel shame and insecure thinking about small business. For that type of people author said ” Anyone who runs a business that’s sustainable and profitable weather it is big or small, should be proud.”

● “Planning is guessing”

When you are planning for long term it means you are just guessing not doing planning. You have to plan but first short term.
That’s why author said ” Give up on the guess work. Decide what you are going to do this week not this year.”

But we have to plan because without plan success road may seem scary. Also don’t follow blindly a plan which have not any relation with reality.

● “Learning from mistakes is overrated”

Here author want say that learning from mistakes is good thing but don’t do mistakes blindly. Just try to do less mistakes.

● “Small is not just a stepping – stone. small is a great destination in itself.”

Small success is not a bad infact we have to avoid huge growth because it spurts too. They can cause you to skip right over your appropriate size.
So grow slow and observe things that how it’s working. It helps in your business to grow faster.

तेरा एहसास ही काफी है….

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Book review of “Ultimate Confidence“

Author – Marisa peer

Ultimate confidence : The secrets to feeling great about yourself every day is the great book which makes you lion from cat. I can tell you what Marisa peer said in this book about confidence step by step.

You can imagine about this book by its title but it’s content is more than that. In this book author knows about the stage in which many of us loose confidence that is adolescence. She divided the book into few steps and define every steps clearly so can she help people in gaining confidence. She also share some stories of her as a example to clear the reader about confidence.

Marisa peer uses very simple language in her book so that every people can understand easily. She also said in her book that “ some of the most successful people were told they would never succeed.” But they succeed by their confidence and hard work. She also give some examples like Elvis Presley , J.K Rowling , Albert Einstein and Thomas Edison etc. And said about there unsuccessfulness. So find out what you love to do and be amazing at it.Be good in one thing which you love and be confident on that work which you love also try to be good on that.

● Be good in one thing which you love and be confident on that work which you love also try to be good on that.

• The greater needs which every person have is “every one accept us” and “ no one reject us” but it can’t be possible because in this world not every one like you. Some people may jealous from you or dislike you. So, be positive and don’t take negativity from others. You have your emotions remote control near you rather than anyone so don’t give any body your emotions remote control because they just want to play with your emotions. Behave like that you are not affected by your surroundings.

• Don’t accept other people negative words. If any one said negative to you its ok, he or she just wasting there time.

• Always feel positive and stay calm. Negative people are just saying some words and they want to give you but don’t take garbage from others.

• The most happiest and confident people are those who  always try to give their best. Try to accept your weakness and do not hesitate what other people are saying.

• Never depend on others for praising. Praise yourself and believe in yourself.

• Un confident  people have problems of depression and anxiety. In that situation you have to find the reason of it and try to finish it.

• A confident people always have 100% confidence. “ Because superiority will always lead to confidence.” The more you have knowledge the more you feel confident. So always try to learn more and keep yourself update.

“Break your negative beliefs and habits”Marisa peer

– Marisa peer

It helps you to stay positive hand happy.

I think this book is best who want build there personality by building confident. So give try to this I know it will really help you.

Ultimate confidence : The secrets to feeling great about yourself every day written by Marisa peer.

वक्त बहुत अच्छा मरहम है…..

बोली के चाल ढाल….

बोली के चाल ढाल का,
पूरी दुनिया में खेल है।
जो न सीख पाया ये चाल,
वो इस दुनिया में फेल है।
कभी नजरें करती हैं जादू,
तो कभी लय का खेल है।
कभी आये प्रलये,
तो सोंच का खेल है।
जीने के लिए,
बस कुछ सलिकों का हेर फेर है।
वर्ना क्या ज़रूरत थी,
बोली विचारों की।
जानवर भी तो जीते हैं,
अपनी जिंदगी।

– मनीषा कुमारी

दुपट्टा

दुपट्टे को क्या कहूँ,
ये तो है हथियार नया।
कभी बन जाता है, औज़ार मेरा
कभी श्रृंगार का सामान है,
कभी खुद की पहचान है,
कभी खुद का सम्मान है,
कभी खेलने की चीज़ नई,
कभी बढ़ता इससे,
आत्मसम्मान है।

– मनीषा कुमारी